Brenda Kay Nelson Lopez
Brenda Kay Nelson Lopez, 69, of Lumberton, Texas, passed away on Friday, May 16, 2025, surrounded by the family she loved so deeply.
Born and raised in Beaumont, Brenda made a life of love, laughter, and service to others. She spent her career managing offices with grace and diligence, but her true joy was found in the time she gave so generously to her family and friends. Brenda was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, always present – whether cheering from the bleachers, sewing custom Halloween costumes by hand, or simply offering a listening ear.
She was a proud 1973 graduate of South Park High School where she was a member of the Sparkettes Drill Team. While in high school she patiently waited for her true love to return from his station in Germany. Shortly after Tommy returned they got married and began their life together, a life that was full of adventures. They had three of the most perfect children — self-proclaimed, of course.
As a woman of deep faith, Brenda said the rosary every night, even doubling down on that devotion after losing her son a few years ago. One of the things her loved ones admired most about her was that she never let a bad day keep her down. She’d just call her crew for a round of dominoes or a game of Liverpool Rummy. More recently, you could find her enjoying a rowdy night of Music Bingo.
She loved to travel. She had most recently returned from Las Vegas where she watched her grandson’s archery competition and was eagerly awaiting the Alaskan cruise they planned in celebration of their 50th wedding anniversary. She also regularly traveled to celebrate Grandparents’ Day with out of state grandchildren and often road-tripped to watch the athletic competitions of the other grandkids. She created beautiful crafts and was never one to be outdone. She was so festive that each Christmas was a guaranteed surprise since she changed her home’s outdoor theme every year. She never missed a chance to celebrate life’s big and small moments. She was known for her holiday games. She’d spend weeks planning ways to drum up a little holiday head-to-head between her kids, grandkids, nieces, and nephews which ended with uproarious laughter from all. Her bubbly spirit, open heart, and willingness to help anyone in need made her a beloved friend to all who knew her.
Brenda is survived by her loving husband, Thomas “Tommy”; daughters, Cynthia Rivas and her husband, Adrian; and Erin Evans and her husband, Mickey; daughter-in-law, Amanda Lopez; grandchildren, Brayden Evans, Katherine Lopez, Grayson Evans, Christian Lopez, Brady Rivas, Alicia Rivas, Sarah Evans, and Gabriel Lopez. She is preceded in death by her parents, M.B. and Delores Nelson; beloved son, Thomas Chase Lopez; brother, Tom Nelson; and sister, Janie Riley.
Her legacy will live on through the warmth of her family, the strength of her faith, and the countless lives she touched with her kindness.
A gathering of Mrs. Lopez’s family and friends will be 5:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m., with a Rosary to be recited at 6:30p.m., Tuesday, May 20, 2025, at Broussard’s, 490 Cemetery Road, Silsbee. A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 1:00 p.m., Wednesday, May 21, 2025, at Infant Jesus Catholic Church, 243 South LHS Drive, Lumberton, with her interment to follow at Forest Lawn Memorial Park, Beaumont.
Gathering of Family and Friends
Broussard’s Mortuary Silsbee
- 490, Cemetery Road, Silsbee, Texas, 77656,
- May 20, 2025
- 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Rosary
Broussard’s Mortuary Silsbee
- 490, Cemetery Road, Silsbee, Texas, 77656,
- May 20, 2025
- 6:30 pm
Mass of Christian Burial
Infant Jesus Catholic Church
- 243, S Lhs Dr, Lumberton, TX, 77657,
- May 21, 2025
- 1:00 pm
Committal
Forest Lawn Memorial Park
- 4955, Pine St, Beaumont, TX, 77703,
- May 21, 2025
We are so sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. May the Lord comfort you in the days to come.
Sorry to hear the loss of the sweet lady , I remember the fun times and friendship during the days of Child Care at Amelia Baptist Day Care. She was my menter. I will miss her. Prayers to all the family.
Carmel Geheb.
So sad to hear of Brenda’s passing. I worked with her several years at Silsbe e Chiropractic. Prayers for the family that I know will miss her greatly.
Tommy, I am so sorry for You and Your Family’s loss. Y’all are in My prayers.
Brenda, We will so miss you! Know you are so happy to be reunited with Chase and loving paradise with our Lord! Praying for your Tommy and all your family you love so much! Hugs to you till we meet again!
My sincere condolences and heartfelt prayers to the Lopez and Nelson families! I pray you have peace that surpasses all understanding and strength for now and in the days to come!
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Dearest Brenda,
I’m sure going to miss you and your beautiful smile. My heart breaks for Tommy and your family. My the Lord keep them in his loving grace.
Dear Tommy & family,
Our hearts & prayers go to each of you as you deal with this tremendous loss. Brenda was such an awesome person! She was so passionate about her family, especially those grandkids! If you were lucky enough to call her friend, then you had a true blue loyal friend to the end! I will miss her forever but I find peace knowing that she has reconnected with Chase.
Our love & prayers
Cathy & John
My condolences to the Lopez family.
Tommy, I am terribly sorry for you and your family’s loss! You all are in my thoughts and prayers!
To Brenda’s family ; my heart is breaking for each and every one of you. We were good friends all the way through school and kept me laughing. You will truly be missed. Heaven has gained another angel 😇🪽 RIP my dear friend ♥️
So sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace and comfort.
Dear Cindy and family,
When I first heard of Brenda’s passing, I felt such sadness! My mind immediately went to Tommy, her children and her grandchildren! She was such a bright light in her family! In the few times I got to spend time with her, the pride she had for her children and grandchildren was so apparent! Her legacy will live on in all of you! I’m hoping and praying that God will help you through this difficult time as you adjust to life without her! I just know that Brady and Alicia have 2 grandmas in heaven now and will be guided in their spiritual lives! I will continue to pray for you all to have the strength you need as you prepare to say your final farewell to a woman who brought you all such wonderful memories, guidance, laughter and a whole bunch of love! Love and prayers for all!! 🩷🌺🙏🏼😢
We are still having trouble believing that this is real. We are so sorry for the loss of Brenda. We pray for your comfort knowing that she is no longer in pain. May God be with all of you as you try to move on without her. May she Rest In Peace.
Sorry Tommy to hear of the loss of your beloved wife. May she rest well. Condolences to the enter Lopez family.
Tommy and family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about Brenda. She was a loving person and will be missed by many. My prayers are with all of you.
Tommy and family,
You all are in our thoughts prayers. May God give you comfort and peace.
May the faithful departed, Brenda, through the mercy of God rest in peace.
And may God wrap his loving arms around all the family during this difficult time.
Blessings,
Sandy
(Adolfo & Victoria Gracias daughter)
To the Lopez and Rivas Family
My deepest condolences for this tremendous loss. I am so very sorry. But unfortunately y words do nothing to lessen this painful time in your life. And unfortunately, it does not subside, but it will get different with time.
I know how much she loved her grandchildren. It was evident in how proud she always was in her comments. I am glad I knew her, even if briefly. She was kind and loving and fun. I remember your baby shower Cindy and the Christmas party at my house and how generous and loving she was with Alicia’s friends. She was a gem.
It’s going to be hard. Brady and Alicia will miss her greatly. This all sucks. It’s so unreal. You have an advocate in Heaven. And now the two loving grandmas will watch over their grandchildren. I’m sure of that.
And my heart will break for your dad. He will be lost. I can only pray for the time when it becomes a little more bearable.
Love you all.
Pam
An awesome neighbor. Rest in peace, Brenda, you will be missed by your family & friends!