Carol Ann “Cookie” McKinstry

Beloved, Wife, Mother, Mimi, Sister, and Friend

Leaving a legacy of grace, kindness, and love of God, Carol Ann “Cookie” McKinstry, age 77, of Lumberton, Texas, passed away peacefully in her home on July 6, 2025.

Born on May 12,1948, in Lubbock, Texas, Cookie brought joy, and laughter to all who knew her. She earned her nickname from her father early in life—a sweet reflection of her warm, caring spirit and her legendary baking skills.

Cookie and Mike were married June 10, 1966, and together they shared 59 beautiful years of marriage, raising a loving family and building a life grounded in faith, hospitality, and service. She was the proud mother of Todd, Toby, Tyler, and her angel baby, Tiffany. She is the cherished Mimi to 7 grandchildren, who brought her immense pride and joy.

Known for her generous heart, her sense of humor, Cookie had a gift to make everyone feel welcome and loved. Whether through a homemade meal or a listening ear, she touched countless lives with kindness and compassion.

A woman of deep faith, she was active in her church community and found purpose in serving others. She especially loved holidays, family gatherings, and spending time with her close friends.

Cookie had a special affection for babies and little ones. Her grandchildren were among her greatest treasures—each one held a special place in her heart. She delighted in their laughter, milestones, and everyday moments, and she made each of them feel uniquely loved. As they grew up, she continued to share a close and meaningful relationship with each of them, offering encouragement, wisdom, and unconditional love.  Her nurturing spirit, gentle touch, and joyful presence will live on through them.

She is preceded in death by her parents, E.J. and Rhea Haymes; her brother, Brad Haymes; and her daughter, Tiffany McKinstry. She is survived by her husband, Mike McKinstry; sons, Todd McKinstry and his wife, Marla, and children, Jayce, Avery; Toby McKinstry and his wife, Kyndra and children, Crawford and Thatcher, Tyler McKinstry and his wife, Kimberly and children, Cole, Cade and Coby; her “tister”, Jan Johnson her husband, Truman. She also leaves behind her treasured niece and nephews and many wonderful friends.

A celebration of Cookie’s life will begin at 2:00 p.m., Saturday, July 26, 2025, at 4978 Leatherwood Drive, Kountze (in the Beaumont Colony neighborhood). All who loved her are welcome to attend and honor her beautiful spirit. Casual dress is welcome.

Her cremation arrangements were handled through Broussard’s Crematorium under the direction of Broussard’s, 1605 North Major Drive, Beaumont.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Urban Harvest Ministries, P.O. Box 8844, Lumberton, Texas 77657 give online or Alzheimer’s Association, 6055 South Loop East, Houston, Texas 77087 give online, in her memory.